And now that I'm casually dating older Dating older men young girls ive realised many things Dating older men young girls myself and the misconceptions of sex that I was always given as a teen. By the age of 30 and above, people often have their own jobs and have been able to organize their lives somehow. For example, my partner always tells me to buy cotton and so I made it a habit to always read the label before I purchase anything. I love her very much. Although a year-old guy dating an year-old girl is not violating any laws, I don't believe it is practical, and most importantly, I don't think it is healthy. In my youth, I was very much attracted to older men, mainly because I felt men closer to my age bracket were quite immature.